Edward Lyons: I get so mad I can't see straight. About McCarthyistic attacks, I mean.
I know what you mean, Edward. Sometimes I get so mad I can't see straight too -- but it only lasts for a few seconds, and then I remember that I couldn't see all that well
before I got mad. I also try to realize the uselessness of my anger, especially when it's directed against other people, It seems to me that anger against people is counterproductive; anger should be directed against ignorance and selfishness, the two qualities that cause most (if not all) of the world's suffering. I have made a pact with myself that I will do my best not to get mad at
people. If I feel anger rising I back away and try to analyze the causes for the actions that caused my anger to rise. Then, if I can do something about that cause, I'll act. If I can't do anything, I'll let go of it. Do I do this perfectly every time? Of course not, but life is too short to spend it holding grudges against people.
I'm rambling here, and this is just my opinion of course, but I don't think most people set out with the intention of harming others. It just happens because we're all selfish to varying degrees, and we act without knowing all the facts. We all do it -- I more than most, probably -- but I'll do my best to try to understand others, and I hope that they'll return the favor. Having said that, it occurs to me that I'm asking a lot, because I don't even understand me.